For Ashton, a first-time Starfish camper in 2024, his camp experience was more than just a place to spend two weeks of his summer—it was an opportunity for growth, fun, and discovery. And for Kelly, Ashton’s mother, it provided something she hadn’t experienced in over a decade: time to herself with assurance her son was safe and cared for. Their story is one of transformation, empowerment, and hope, and it perfectly captures the impact of Camp Starfish on both campers and their families.
Leading up to Ashton’s summer session, he was nervous about being away from his mom, as many first-time campers are. “Yeah, I was nervous that I was gonna miss my mom,” Ashton shared candidly during a recent interview with Danielle Lubbers, Camp Director. But his apprehension didn’t last long – soon, Ashton was fully immersed in camp activities that were tailored to his unique needs and interests. Sandcastle building quickly became a favorite pastime, along with crafting beaded animals, swimming, and learning martial arts. The 1:1 staff-to-camper ratio ensured that Ashton always had the support he needed to engage in these activities, build his confidence, and feel at ease in a new environment.
Danielle recalled Ashton’s joy when he mastered new skills during martial arts sessions. Ashton worked hard and earned a lime tag, which shows he was really progressing in his skills and making a concerted effort to try his best. He loved the kicks and moves, but most of all, he embraced the discipline and camaraderie of the dojo. He even remembered the most important rule: ‘What we learn in the Dojo stays in the Dojo,’ and he was quick to share this during his interview.
Starfish’s unique programming also helped Ashton cultivate skills that extended far beyond the campgrounds. Camp Starfish places a strong emphasis on social-emotional growth, teaching campers to navigate challenges and build resilience. One of Ashton’s goals at camp was to cultivate a “winner’s attitude”—a positive mindset when things don’t go his way. By participating in team activities and working closely with peers and counselors, Ashton learned to adapt and thrive. “Fish swim together,” he often reminds his mom, referencing the Fish Village Chant, which emphasizes teamwork and community.
But the impact of Camp Starfish wasn’t limited to Ashton alone. For Kelly, the two weeks Ashton spent at camp were life-changing. “This was the first time in 12 years that I had some downtime,” Kelly shared. “As a parent of a child with significant special needs, camp gave me a chance to breathe.” Knowing that Ashton was not only safe but thriving in an environment tailored to his needs allowed Kelly to enjoy a rare moment of respite.
Camp Starfish’s attention to detail played a significant role in easing Kelly’s mind. From accommodating Ashton’s special dietary requirements to managing his medications seamlessly, the staff’s communication and compassion assured Kelly that Ashton’s care would be consistent throughout his session.
The independence Ashton gained at camp extended into his daily life at home; he is proud to show his mom how independent he has become. Kelly recounted a recent example of Ashton’s newfound independence, “You know what he did this morning? He went and got the bread and the jelly and the knife and the plate – and he made his own jelly sandwich all by himself!” Ashton has also taken a more active role in packing for trips, deciding exactly what he wants to bring and how much of everything he needs – no doubt, this may have been inspired by his practice packing for camp. It’s amazing to see how confident and capable he’s become.
For Ashton, the independence he’s cultivated is matched only by his excitement to return to Camp Starfish next summer. When asked about his favorite activities, he lit up talking about the camp’s hammocks, where he loved to relax during freeplay, and the fun he had swimming at the waterfront. “I really want to go to Camp Starfish next summer,” Ashton declared enthusiastically.
Camp Starfish’s unique ability to support children like Ashton and provide relief to parents like Kelly is made possible through the generosity of its donors. Financial aid ensures that families can access this life-changing experience regardless of their financial circumstances. “I do think the 1:1 ratio was critical for his needs,” Kelly emphasized. It is true there aren’t many camps out there that do what Camp Starfish does, and we are thankful that Kelly and Ashton were able to find a camp that was exactly the right fit for them.
Ashton’s story is an example of the magic of Camp Starfish: empowering children with the skills, confidence, and joy they need to thrive while also giving families a much-needed break. For donors, this is the impact of their generosity—a chance to make unforgettable summers possible for campers and to give families like Ashton and Kelly a gift that lasts long after the season ends.
Your support helps ensure that Camp Starfish can continue to provide these life-changing opportunities. Every donation directly contributes to creating a safe, nurturing environment where campers can learn, grow, and have fun, and where parents can rest assured knowing their children are in the best hands.
Together, we can continue to make Camp Starfish a place where children like Ashton build lifelong memories—and where parents like Kelly find a moment of peace. Consider making a donation today to help transform another family’s summer.
