New Year, New Beginnings: How Camp Starfish Shaped Eri’s Future

The new year is often a time to pause and look both backward and forward. It’s a chance to recognize how far we’ve come while imagining what might be next. For Eri, this moment feels especially meaningful. Right now, she is standing at the edge of several exciting new beginnings, carrying with her years of growth, confidence, and self-belief shaped in part by her time at Camp Starfish.

Celebrating Where She Is Now

Eri’s present is full of accomplishments worth celebrating. One of the biggest milestones came recently when she shared, “I officially got my diploma last week… I’m really excited about it. It was hard fought.” Graduating wasn’t just about finishing school, it was about learning to advocate for herself and trust her instincts about what she needed in order to succeed.

Alongside graduation, Eri has been stepping into creative spaces that once felt far outside her comfort zone. This past year, she began working with a modeling agency that focuses on inclusive and diverse casting. Since then, she has participated in photoshoots and even walked the runway at New England Fashion Week. Reflecting on that experience, she shared that being in front of the camera has been “a lot of fun,” even when it pushed her in new ways.

She also took initiative in building community. After losing touch with some close friends, Eri created a Discord server designed especially for neurodivergent people and allies to connect. In just a short time, the group grew quickly, giving her not only a way to support others but also a space where she could form new friendships herself. Reaching that goal was deeply meaningful, especially because connection and belonging have not always come easily. 

Looking at all she is doing now, Eri sees a clear connection to her earlier experiences. “I don’t think I’d be able to get to do things like that without the experience I had from a very young age, at Starfish,” she shared.

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Building Confidence at Camp Starfish

Eri first came to Camp Starfish in 2014. Like many first-time campers, she remembers feeling anxious. “I do remember being very nervous, because I’ve never really been away from my parents for that long before.” What camp offered was not pressure to change, but support to grow at her own pace.

One of the things that made Camp Starfish different for Eri was the way challenges were handled. “They try to push you to get out of your comfort zone, but they don’t force you,” she explained. In that environment, she felt safe enough to try new activities and learn that discomfort didn’t mean failure. Over time, those moments added up, slowly building confidence that would follow her far beyond camp. 

Equally important was feeling understood. Eri shared that the staff “really understand people who have different needs and are really accommodating about it.” Whether it was flexibility around routines, individualized plans, or offering breaks and headphones when things felt overwhelming, camp was a place where she could be herself and still succeed.

Three Campers smiling at Camp Starfish

Looking Ahead to What’s Next

As the new year begins, Eri is focused on the future. She is starting a new program at a clubhouse for neurodivergent young adults to work on life skills and independence, and she sees it as another step toward her long-term goals. 

College is part of that picture. Eri plans to study communications, and she feels that camp helped prepare her for what lies ahead. “Staying away from home with people you don’t know, meeting new people, doing new things,” she explained, were all skills she practiced early on and continues to build today.

She is also working toward a deeply personal dream. Writing has always been one of her strengths, and she shared, “My biggest goal is always to publish a book.” She has already started writing every day, working toward a future where her story can be told in her own words.

group activity with campers and counselors at summer camp

Carrying the Lessons Forward

When asked what she would say to her younger self, Eri didn’t hesitate. “Don’t give up. It might seem hard right now, but things will get better. And there are people to help you.” That message captures both her journey and her hope for what comes next.

As Eri steps into this new year, she does so with confidence earned over time. From graduating, to walking a fashion runway, to building community online, and dreaming of college and authorship, she continues to move forward on her own path.

At Camp Starfish, we are proud to have been part of Eri’s story and grateful to watch her continue to grow. This new year holds many possibilities, and Eri is meeting them with courage, creativity, and belief in herself.

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Lydia Beeler

Lydia Beeler is Camp Starfish’s Program Director, ensuring that all campers have a safe, supportive, and fun Starfish experience. Lydia joined Starfish in the summer of 2021 and has enjoyed multiple different roles on camp. With a degree in psychology from the Massachusetts College of Liberal Arts and experience in healthcare and education, she brings both knowledge and enthusiasm to her role.

Lydia is from Worcester, Massachusetts, and takes great pride in being able to pronounce her hometown. Her favorite camp activity is the closing campfire, where campers are able to reflect on and celebrate their achievements made during their time at Starfish. Her favorite Camp Starfish Tool is, “We make camp a safe place.”

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Danielle Lubbers

Danielle joined Camp Starfish in the spring of 2023 as Camp Director. Originally working with the Girl Scouts of the Chesapeake Bay, Danielle has ten years of experience providing programming to children, outdoor skills training for adults, and directing overnight summer camp experiences.

In her spare time, Danielle enjoys spending time with her two-year old Dalmatian, Mia. Danielle’s favorite activity at camp is raft building, as she enjoys seeing campers and staff work together to complete a team goal. Her favorite Camp Starfish Tool is “We are here to learn, grow, and have fun!”

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David Mahnken

David Mahnken is Camp Starfish’s Mental Health Consultant. He provides staff training each summer on topics such as self-care, trauma-informed care practices, and health & wellness. David also provides support and consultation to the organization throughout the year. David holds a BA from St. Olaf College and an MSW from Simmons University. David is a LICSW who works in emergency services in addition to his own private practice in Massachusetts.

Prior to becoming a social worker, David’s first experience at camp was as a counselor in the early 2000s before becoming an administrator and member of the year-round team. His favorite camp activity is swim-I (swim instruction), and his favorite Camp Starfish Tool is: “We make camp a safe place.”

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Joe Clark

As the Assistant Director at Camp Starfish, Joe is a seasoned professional who is well-versed in all aspects of camp life. With five years of summer work at Starfish, he brings extensive experience and expertise to the camp year-round. Joe is from the UK, and holds a degree from Keele University. Joe works as a support worker in the UK, providing care to individuals with disabilities, since 2019. Joe also engages in volunteer work, including spending three months in Abrobiano, Ghana.

Joe is known at camp for his charming English accent, which campers often try to replicate! His favorite camp activity is playing soccer (football) on the field, and his favorite Camp Starfish Tool is: “I take responsibility for my actions.”

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Rachel Roberts

Rachel Roberts is the Director of Staff Experience at Camp Starfish, responsible for all things staffing and groups. With a degree in Anthropology, and a Certificate in Global Citizenship from Franklin Pierce University, Rachel brings a unique perspective to her role. She oversees hiring, onboarding, retention, and staff appreciation for the 100+ seasonal staff at Camp Starfish each summer. Rachel has been a part of the Starfish team since 2016, working in various seasonal roles. She joined the Year-Round Team full-time in 2022.

As a lifelong New Hampshire resident, Rachel enjoys hiking in the woods with her dog, Clover. Her favorite camp activity is Free Play, and her favorite Camp Starfish Tool is: “We respect each other’s differences.”

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Kristie Martin

Kristie Martin is Camp Starfish’s Communications Director, ensuring that Starfish is able to reach a wide audience of potential campers and staff each year to further the Starfish mission. With her degree in Applied Psychology & Human Development from the Lynch School of Education at Boston College, Kristie has a deep understanding of child development and uses this knowledge to create a nurturing environment for all campers during the summer.

Kristie grew up in the Monadnock region and takes pride in being a local. Kristie’s favorite camp activity is the Camper Talent Show, which she believes is the perfect opportunity for campers to showcase their skills and feel comfortable sharing with the community. Her favorite Camp Starfish Tool is, “I try my best, I do not have to be the best.”

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Sarah Scott-Sandagato

Sarah Scott-Sandagato is the Director of Operations at Camp Starfish, joining the team in the Spring of 2022. She brings with her a wealth of professional experience working in both mental health and human resources. Sarah’s role at Camp Starfish is crucial in ensuring that camp runs smoothly, and she is available to assist families every step of the way through the registration process. If you call the Starfish office, Sarah will likely be who you speak with first!

With her dedication to helping others and her commitment to creating a positive camp experience for every child, it’s no wonder that her favorite Camp Starfish Tool is: “We are members of a team.”

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Jamie Mahnken

Jamie Mahnken is Camp Starfish’s Executive Director, and has been an integral part of the Camp Starfish community since 2010, serving in a variety of roles. With a degree in Business Administration and Organizational Leadership from Southern New Hampshire University, Jamie is committed to creating a safe and positive environment for every camper, staff member, and volunteer.

As a North Carolina native, Jamie enjoys spending time outdoors with her family. Her favorite camp activity is kayaking to Blueberry Island, which is a meaningful and memorable experience for many campers, as well. Jamie’s favorite Camp Starfish Tool is: “I am flexible and open to change.”